Booking your first meeting with a wedding celebrant can feel like a big step — and it is. This conversation often sets the tone for your entire ceremony planning journey. If you’re feeling a little nervous or unsure what to expect, you’re not alone. At Married by Tedyy, we want every couple to feel comfortable and informed before they walk in (or log on) for that first meeting. Here’s what typically happens.
1. A Warm, Relaxed Introduction
Your first meeting isn’t a formal interview — it’s a conversation. A good celebrant will start by putting you both at ease, asking general questions to get to know you as a couple before diving into wedding specifics. This is your chance to see if their personality and energy feel like a good fit.
2. Questions About Your Love Story
Expect to be asked how you met, what drew you to each other, and any meaningful moments in your relationship. These details form the foundation of your ceremony script, so a thorough celebrant will take genuine interest in hearing your story in your own words.
3. A Discussion About Your Vision
Your celebrant will likely ask about the tone you’re hoping for — formal or relaxed, traditional or modern, heartfelt or humorous. This helps them understand how to shape your ceremony and ensures their style aligns with what you’re picturing for your big day.
4. An Overview of the Legal Requirements
A professional celebrant will explain the Notice of Intended Marriage and other legal paperwork required before your wedding date. They should walk you through timelines clearly, so you know exactly what’s needed and when.
5. A Walkthrough of Their Process
Expect your celebrant to outline how they work — from initial consultation through to ceremony delivery. This usually includes how many meetings or check-ins are included, how the script is developed, and what involvement you’ll have in reviewing drafts.
6. A Clear Explanation of Pricing
Transparency matters. A trustworthy celebrant will provide a clear breakdown of their fees and what’s included, whether that’s ceremony writing, sound equipment, rehearsal attendance, or travel. There should be no ambiguity about costs after this meeting.
7. An Opportunity to Ask Questions
This meeting is just as much for you as it is for them. Come prepared with questions — about experience, availability, backup plans, or anything else on your mind. A confident, experienced celebrant will welcome your questions and answer them openly.
8. A Chance to Gauge Compatibility
Beyond logistics, this meeting is about connection. Do you feel comfortable? Do they listen well? Does their energy match what you want for your ceremony? Trust your instincts — this is the person who will stand beside you on your wedding day.
9. Next Steps and Timeline
By the end of the meeting, a good celebrant will outline clear next steps, whether that’s confirming your booking, sending through a written proposal, or scheduling a follow-up conversation once you’ve had time to think.
10. No Pressure to Decide Immediately
A professional celebrant understands this is an important decision. You shouldn’t feel rushed or pressured into booking on the spot. Take your time to reflect before making your final choice.
Your First Step Toward a Meaningful Ceremony
At Married by Tedyy, our first meeting is all about getting to know you — genuinely and without pressure. We want you to leave feeling excited, informed, and confident in your choice.